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I’m beginning to think of leaving my partner because he travels so much for work and is more often than not checked out during sex. I have sex with other people more than I do with him. Although our intimacy is good (we have a stag/vixen dynamic), his lack of presence has made me turn more toward other partners. I’ve gotten more adventurous and experimental with other playmates, but I’m getting tired of the rotating cast of characters in my sex life. I want a partner who is more present, who I have sex with more than anyone else. I want more depth in my relationship and I need more quality time for that. Am I taking the easy road by breaking up or is my concern legitimate?
Overthinking it? Scared? Getting real REAL?
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I have talked to him, but not direct nor frequently enough. I think he also assumes that I want to have sex with other people more than I do with him. For both of us it’s easy to find other partners to sleep with than to get vulnerable with each other about why we’re not having enough sex. Yeah sometimes open monogamy is our enabler. 😬