Hi guys, seem to be posting a lot here at the moment during this rollercoaster ride of opening my relationship. I’m feeling very excited about the future and I have a loving girlfriend who cares a lot for me. I seem to have jealously under control and I am happy with our decision to open our relationship (actually can not imagine it closed). while communication with my partner is strong.

The only thing that is bugging me is it seems to be all I can think about and is definitely effecting my sleep. The odd thing is these thoughts are actually mostly not worry (obv there is some), but excitement. Obviously this is an important change in my life and maybe I am just processing the change (mourning the loss of monogamy) but I want to continue to focus on myself, but finding that a little hard if the only topic on my mind is the opening of my relationship. I do reckon this will get better with time / more detanglement. Has anyone else been in a similar situation. Looking forward to this just being a ‘thing’ but not the main thing. Thanks all.