Me (23M) and my GF (22f) of a long time were studying going with a open relationship. We're pretty rational, we think we communicate greatly and we rank our relationship high marks on everything, maybe except sex.

We're improving sex and we'll be very cautious about not pursuing poly as a substitute for our sex life.

She's my first girlfriend and the only girl I ever slept. Even kissing, I was very shy during high school and I kissed only a couple of times before her. Today I fell much more confident than back then. Either because I definitely look better now or because I am confident due to having a better financial condition or because I definitely get lady, but I never tested my skills.

I worry that I won't be able to flirt and have nice relationships while she does. Sexism is a thing in our society and the fact is that there are some gender inbalance in the sex game where it's easier for women.

Of course we'll discuss about. I don't want to add jerk rules like (you can't date more than me), but I'd like to hear the sub about your experiences. Did you ever face conflict because one side was dating more than the other?