If you have talked to many people, you know rules are needed, required, expected, etc.

However, some we/I/her have just rolled our eyes at and don’t get...granted, to each their own. I will say if you make goofy rules, people can just as easily say ‘not interested.’

Ones we just think are weird: no kissing (really? THAT’S too intimate?), only do oral (I guess I can see the logic but still, come on...), no condoms (don’t give shit about ‘can’t cum with one’), no ‘intimate touching’, guys can’t touch during mfm (really? Have you actually had one?)....

Ones that you have encountered?

Edit: a few have tried ‘high jacking’ the post regarding defining rules, boundaries, etc. and whether they feel rules are stupid, etc.. That is not the point of the post. If you don’t like the concept of rules, fine. Put your own post up about it. Stop trying to turn others post into your soap box.