Hello everyone :) I will try to summarize this as concise as possible.

(Not real names) Frank and I met many years ago, we hooked up, then saw each other again and hooked up one more time. We always kind of got along but I knew that he wasn't boyfriend material, so I didn't even try.

Mark texts me on Grindr and tells me that he would very much like to get to know me, hot guy in the profile picture, added me on instagram (which I had seen before because he was Frank's boyfriend) and I don't even bother to read profile. I thought that they had broken up but to my surprise, they hadn't. And it was perfect, because my perfect relationship would be a throuple.

Now here's the thing. Mark really really likes me and is into me. Frank is begin a little bit hard to crack. We have an amazing dynamic, we get along really well, we laugh, we eat together, watch movies and everything seems fine, but I just don't know if he's falling for me as Mark and I are.

He knows why I'm there and why I visit their house so much, like he knows what the intentions are and most of the times he seems ok with it, but should he be ok with it or should he be more like all over me? I mean, he isn't the warmest person anyways, not even with Mark. I remember that from the past and Mark reassured me of that. So maybe I should just give it time. It's quite recent.

What do you think guys? I feel like I'm a piece that fits in perfectly in their lives, they have had a rough past but are very much more stable now and they recognize that a third in the relationship would maybe complement the relationship per se.

Side-note: Someone very significant for Mark died last night. He reached out to tell me, I was there for him, but I don't know if it's my position to be all the way there for him, since we're not formal yet. Should I stay away for a bit and just show virtual support or what do you think?