Hey there!

I was just wondering.. me and my NP are casually dating other people. I would absolutely love to hang out with my NP and a guy i am dating. I think they would get along very well. My NP does not have the desire to hang out with him but hopefully is open for it.

My NP is dating a new girl. I know who she is, she dated a few friends of mine and she always thought i didn’t like her. My partner told her that’s not true, and now when we cross paths, we exchange a smile and sometimes we chat a bit. However i still don’t feel fully comfortable with her because she is super mono and i have no idea what her intentions are and who she is. I would love to hang out with her, or her and my NP some day. I think that would ease my mind. Just not sure how to set that up! She feels a bit weird towards the open relationship thing and was very hesitant to date my NP.

What is your experience with dating others, introducing them to your primary partner, or meeting with metamours? I am curious!