So my girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years. I’ve always been the monogamish type, and have been upfront with her about that. We’ve gotten into to group sex and have had a few really exciting nights with mfmf and mfm.

Recently, she told me she’s opening up to the idea of me seeing other girls on my own, when the situation is appropriate (ie, no mutual friends, if I’m traveling, stuff like that).

I’m 25 and have a lot of friends that I go out with or hang out with that have met my girlfriend. They are all the types of people I cannot tell them my open relationship status because they just wouldn’t understand. It’d just cause drama and rumors.

So what I’m thinking is that I won’t be able to meet any women out and about because I’m usually with friends. So it leaves me to tinder and other swinger related events.

Does anyone have any suggestions how to approach this? I was thinking it might be a good idea to open the tinder account back up, setting my age search to 28 to avoid any girls I might know finding my profile (plus older women are more mature), and stating I’m in an ethical non Monogamous relationship.