So my fiancé and I have been together for more than five years now, and engaged for nearly two. We've always been open, and - since I'm pretty poly by nature, and it turns out that he is too - that has developed over time too, and up to now it's worked quite well for us.

So I met a boy. He's gorgeously cute, and ticks both of our boxes physically and emotionally and sexually, and we've had a great time together. Boy told me that he thinks he's falling for us - which I'm totally okay with, as I think we might be falling for him a bit too. Every time I see the two of them together it makes me really happy and warm - so compersion appears to be in full force!

Problem is that when I see the two of them together I feel like Boy is better for Fiancé than I am - not that I feel like I'm losing Fiancé, just that it feels like they would be better off if I just left and let them be adorable and in love.

It's nothing that they've done that makes me feel this way, they're really insistent that I'm attractive and that they care for me and love me, I just feel like they're both wasting their time on me.

What should I do? Help?