Hey everyone, we’re new here and we’re looking for advice from those more experienced than us.

Quick background: wife and I have been together about 7 years, married for 3, and we’ve discussed the hotwife lifestyle/swinging lifestyle for about 2.5 years, and just recently made those fantasies a reality.

Our first two hotwifing experiences was with my wife’s ex boyfriend/ FWB. It was amazing. All 3 of us thought it was incredibly hot and we all wanted more. Lots of people recommended against it but we thought it would be ok given our circumstances.

I asked my wife if there have been any intimate or loving feelings come up for her ex since they’ve been meeting and she said there might be some coming up. Her ex is having the same kind of emotions as well. She says she feels like she shouldn’t want a relationship with him but there’s something drawing her to it.

Before you ask, her and her ex broke up on good terms and are still very good friends before anything. She’s reassured me there’s no possible way she will ever leave me for him. As for my feelings towards everything, it’s arousing but it’s a lot to take in.

Has anyone had experience with an ex boyfriend? We’re just looking for some guidance or advice! Thank you!