We (22f and 25m) just got home from a pretty exciting weekend with another couple we’ve been seeing since November.

This whole thing started pretty particularly because I was their third first. My bf and I decided to “open” our relationship and they were the first thing that was offered to me. We’ve had this amazing dynamic since the beginning. I decided to offer if I could bring my bf into it and they were really open to it. Our first date the four of us was in December and I think it was successful, even though my bf had doubts since the three of us were seeing each other before. Of course, that came with a little bit of jealousy and it was really hard to manage for him the last time we saw each other. We decided to wait a month before setting up another date.

That date was this weekend, we went away the four of us together and it was amazing. A few things still made him jealous but he was very good at communicating. We came up with a safe word if he ever felt uncomfortable and he did use it one time and we quickly managed the situation. They are very patient and respectful in his boundaries. We all agree that we really enjoy each other’s presence, we’re good friends with the added plus of sex. This weekend felt so right, l’m so grateful to be able to have these experiences while still having our day to day routine and enjoy each other’s presence in our main relationship. We agreed to keep seeing them when we feel like it and just see where this all takes us. Enjoy the ride as we say.

Communication was definitely the most challenging part of this. Even though sometimes it felt like we were going nowhere, we still talked about every feeling we had. I knew he had to give them a chance and I knew time would make things work. Last night, we sat down the four of us and explained our perception of the relationship and I think he really understood how we’re not involving feelings of love and emotional attachement. We’re building a great friendship, while exploring different fantasies and making pleasure a priority.

I’m sorry for the long post! I’m just very happy to report that I had the best sex of my life last night and that my boyfriend is actually looking forward to our next meeting this time! Life feels right. 🩷