So I am a bisexual woman new to this kind of thing. I also haven’t slept with a woman before. I’ve always wanted to try a threesome, but I haven’t been actively seeking it out. However I matched with a couple online and we recently met for drinks. It felt awkward to me and I wasn’t sure if I would get a second date but they did ask for another.

From reading unicornsrus and plenty of these sorts of threads, I know I should be very communicative and ask about boundaries, things they might not want to do in bed, etc. we have not talked about any of that yet but it has gotten me thinking about what I want, mostly to be the “guest star”. Not as a pillow princess, but I don’t want to just be the 1 to their experience. I’m not looking to date but I also don’t want to be used and emotional chemistry is important to me too. don’t quite know how to communicate this and I also feel like that is unfair to ask though logically I know it is not. Us unicorns are called unicorns a reason. I also don’t know if I should even be doing this having not had sex with a woman before.

I am feeling fairly anxious about it so maybe that is a sign that I am not ready. Either way, if you have any advice I would be glad to hear it. Thanks!