Original: https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/qIOAMPvjjE

So as I suspected the husband doesn’t know about this other guy and it’s ruined it for me so I will no longer be seeing this couple.

They were messaging in the group chat all day yesterday about me going round this Saturday but she wasn’t replying to my message asking if the husband knew about this other man. So I messaged her again and said “can you respond please”. She said “fine. No he doesn’t know and is like to keep it that way please. It’s none of your business anyway”. I responded saying it is my business if you are pulling me in to you cheating on your husband. I mentioned how she had even spoke about a guy she was fucking on her own in the group chat so why not this one? Apparently it’s someone her husband doesn’t like but she’s fancied him since school.

I ended up messaging the group chat and said “I will no longer be available for anymore playing. I wish you both the best” and left the chat.

Bit of a boring update and I am sad as they were both brilliant at sex but it is what it is.