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I met them on a night out and ended up going back to theirs for some fun and it just kind of continued. The husband made a group chat so there was no secrets. One of them would ask to meet me either alone or together and we’d arrange it all in the chat. It’s worked well and I’ve been them alone or as a couple 2 or 3 times a week and always at their house.
This morning the wife messaged me privately and said she’s got another fwb who is after a threesome and would I be interested. I don’t know the dynamics of their relationship and whether they do have more people they play with or if the wife is just cheating on her husband. I haven’t replied yet as I don’t know what to do. Do I reply to her privately and ask if the husband knows? Do I message her husband privately and tell him? Do I respond to it in the group chat?
Just ask her what the dynamics are. Maybe they also play separately. It might have been awkward for her to bring it up in the group chat. The husband could be ok with it but doesn’t want to be involved and know details etc. He could have chats with other women that the wife isn’t involved with.
I am surprised that relationship dynamics haven’t come up during vetting e.g. do you guys ever play separately? See other people? Generally I would have been asking all of that type of stuff pretty early in the conversation before any hook up.
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