I've struggled with my wife being poly/non monogamous for a while. I've even come here for advise on how to be OK with it. Some of you have said it is OK to not be OK. I finally admitted I'm not OK. After some back and forth my wife decided we were incompatible. I'm currently staying at a friend's house trying to figure out where to go from here.

13 year relationship with a 10yo kid. Gone, just like that. I gave everything I had to give and it just wasn't enough. She told me I didn't do anything wrong and that I just couldn't give her what she wanted. I want to be mad, but I know there is no point. I just hope she finds what she is looking for in this lifestyle.

Since I no longer need to figure out how to be OK there is no need for me to be here. As such this will be my last post.