So my girlfriend and I have spoken in legnth about fantasy's, boundaries, limits, the yes's, the hard no's, who we like, what we like, and where the things are okay. To keep is short. My job puts me in a public light. We're having a hard time finding a person to include we can trust. We're not sure where to start, at all. My girlfriend is actually very frustrated. How does one open a relationship, and where does one find a person (female) for said opening? Also please mind that I don't have a clue on how reddit culture is at all either. I got on here cause of fly fishing then I found porn so 🤷 I'm you average cave dweller so if you feel the need to break it down barney style I will not be offended.