I’m (f22) in an open relationship with my bf (23) and he doesn’t have any interest in exploring for himself. We have been together for 6.5 years (2 years broken up from 2022-2024. Almost a year since we have been back together). So far it’s been just women that I’ve hooked up with outside of our relationship. I recently brought up me hooking up with others regardless of gender. I don’t know how to make him more comfortable if it were a man and I’m nervous on how to bring it up because this is new for us. I have noticed I started having some feelings toward a guy friend I’ve been hanging out with. But I don’t want to diminish mine and bfs relationship by making him feel emasculated or something like that, as he has previously worried about. He’s willing to explore it, but I can tell he is iffy. I just need advice on how to make him feel reassured and confident in our relationship while still being able to have the open relationship with whoever.