I need advice about someone I recently cut off after a couple months of playing together 1 on 1. I am in an ENM marriage and this person and I were meeting up occasionally. Our in person time was really great. Felt comfortable, had fun and was a good fit overall. After not seeing each other irl for awhile and only texting, things got ugly a couple times when he sent me a couple really disrespectful texts and I cut it off. However, after moving on to other people and talking, playing, etc I just don’t get as excited or turned on as when I was playing with him. I find myself thinking about him in those situations because it’s just slightly disappointing in comparison. What I’m wondering is-would it be terrible to start things back up with him with the intention of being more cautious, maintaining boundaries (minimal texting) and having other partners on the roster instead of him being the one play partner I had? This is strictly hypothetical and I have a lot to think about but I really just want the physical part with him and I wonder if there’s a way around having that without the drama, disrespect and stress that the situation caused me before I ended it. Please advice! Thanks!!