So I’ve been dating this wonderful guy for a couple months now. More than happy to have them be my first relationship ☺️. But lately, I’ve been feeling really confused about whether monogamy is a good fit for me. I’ve noticed even early on in our relationship that I’d still get crushes on other guys. I also love when we discuss other men we find hot and it doesn’t phase me when they describe sexual fantasies with other people.

This week especially I’ve noticed myself have a bit of a heightened desire to sleep with other folks (not something I would ever act on without my partner’s permission of course) and I think it’s been driving me a little nuts. I’m trying to think about a good way to discuss this with my partner so that we’re on the same page but I’m not sure how without worrying them. I know we’ve discussed potentiality for non monogamy when we had our what are talk.