Hi all, me (27m) and my gf (23f) have been dating for a couple of years. Very much in love and enjoying it. To preface, we’re both bi.

Very early in the relationship, my gf said she’d want to have sex with a woman again and so when this came up, maybe was an opportunity for that. This was very early on and so we stowed that away for a time when we had more solid foundations.

So, few weeks ago, someone we’re friends with said they’d be open to a threesome with us. We both thought it was interesting (and who wouldn’t). Felt fun to be wanted by someone outside of the relationship. Cool. Fun. Interesting. You get it.

We chatted in therapy about it and within the relationship. Both didn’t feel like we needed it but that it could be a possibility in the future, whether near or far wasn’t specified by either of us.

This friend isn’t someone we hang out with often at all so they came over and vibes were good and comfortable. Watched something and ate food. Casual and platonic.

Question is: do we bother introducing this factor to the relationship? We’re doing very well together and the bedroom life is satisfying. But of course a threesome sounds like a fun and spicy time and when the silver platter is put in front of you, do we eat this one?

TL;DR me and gf were offered a threesome and turned it down for now but should be just X it out as things are going so well between us and we’re very happy together?

This is my first Reddit post ever so unsure of what else I may be missing from the post!