I’m (36M) currently in a relationship; in which the sex it’s not that often, my partner (36F) has very low libido, and we’ve talked about many, many times, she knows I been feeling very frustrated and is aware of the fact that I been trying my best to understand her and help make things better, but it never seems to last long enough. At one point, we talked about me having a “friend” on the side, and she agreed, but shortly after she thought about it and said NO, she wouldn’t allow it. I honestly never thought about anything like that in the past, I love her and I really want to be with her, but at the same time I been wondering if maybe this might be a good way of helping our relationship, I know it may sound like I’m being selfish, but I honestly been trying every way to make our relationship better. If that was to happen, am I wrong for thinking about this? Would it work? Please honest responses would be appreciated.