Hi every one, So i need some advice on this issue I've been having you see I'm kinda in a poly relationship with my girlfriend who also happens to have a boyfriend that lives with her. I'm more active online with her like we'll video call alot and message on discord alot and she even sends me spicy pics and videos. Anyway I've been financially supporting her with what ever I can cause sometimes even though her boyfriend works they still have a hard time making rent and paying their utility bills so I pay her electric, and internet/cable bill every month for her, heck I'll even send her money to just spend on her self or send money for groceries but I want it to made very clear that she has never once asked for money I just do it cause I like taking care of her and there's been times where I've actually gone to bed hungry cause of it, plus I give her emotional support whenever she needs it shoot I've even taken time away from my work cause she's upset and needs to be talked down (it's her boyfriends most of the time) and she want s me to move states to be with her but for some reason she hasn't told him about me and her being in a relationship (he only thinks we are still very good friends) now this is where it gets complicated. You see every time I bring up to her to talk to him about it she's very hesitant, then ther were the last 4 days that she's basically spent a grand total of 10 minutes texting and a very short vid call cause the boyfriend was at home (she only vid calls when he's not around) any this left me feeling very ignored and feeling very depressed the last four days. So what do you think of this situation I want only truthful answers plz.