Everyone,
thank you so much for all your responses to my post! Most of them were very caring and supportive, but please, it's not such a drama as some of you make it seem. She's free to do whatever she pleases. It's her body and her intimacy and she told me about it which is the deal and I like it when she does, it makes me happy when she's happy. Sure, I admit it, it turns me on to hear and sometimes also be there when she enjoys being intimate with other people, but I still get insecure sometimes. Especially now that she's far away and I feel disconnected. I want to participate in her joy in some way and of course I worry sometimes that she might like it a bit "too much" if you know what I mean and might ditch me for it. But I know that that's always a risk and part of it and I don't seriously worry about it, our relationship is really strong and trusting in general and I have my fun, too. So absolutely no hard feelings or blame on anyone. Just needed to voice my feelings and I'm not brave enough to talk about this stuff with people around me out of fear of their opinion, so I say it here anonymously in this lovely community of people who don't judge me just because I live my relationship differently from most everyone else.

But to give you a bit of an update. She is indeed very busy also sightseeing and stuff. She's only got a few days left and yes they spend a lot of time together and they share a bed. She'll tell me more when she gets back. She also told me not to worry, so I don't and try to focus on her having a good time and expressing her sexuality as she likes.

Thank you for listening (heart emoji I can't find now)