My husband (M29) and I (F28) are hoping to explore the lifestyle before we hit 30—we want to make our 30s sexy, hot, and exciting! We've been married since our early 20s and have known each other since our teens, so all of our sexual experiences have been with each other. Early in our relationship, we both expressed interest in hotwifing and swinging, but we’ve always been a bit too shy to take the leap.

Over time, my husband developed a thing for legs, which has turned into a nylon fetish. He’s particularly interested in the idea of me giving someone else a nylon footjob because we think it might be a more "innocent" way to ease into the lifestyle. We've tried a few times in Vegas, but things didn’t pan out as we hoped.

Now I have a few questions:

1. Is jumping into something sexual right away a bad idea? Our relationship is really strong, but you always hear stories.
2. How do you find people for something so specific? We’ve looked into fetish sites, but most seem to focus on BDSM rather than our niche.
3. When meeting someone for the first time, is it better to meet at a bar and take them home, or would a hotel be a better option?