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I posted on here a little while back about a new partner my boyfriend was seeing. We broke up yesterday in large part because he started pouring all his energy into her and was no longer to show up for me even in the little ways. There was no communication or honesty from him that serious feelings were developing but he’s been completely different towards me since he started seeing her and during the conversation where I ended things with him, he told me felt like he’s been falling out of love with me (since around the time they got together). I can’t help but feel betrayed. I feel like non monogamy was used as a way for him to monkey bar into a new relationship. I’m absolutely heartbroken and I just need words of wisdom or support right now as this isn’t something my monogamous friends can relate to.
🫂❤️ hugs & love. I'm sorry. Glad you just broke up & didn't try to keep doing the lifting for 2. I wish I did the same with an ex within waiting who used open as cheating with permission & made my life hell when I so much talked to someone else, even though it was supposedly open for us both.
There are a lot of amazing, positive, thoughtful, available people in ENM who can balance multiple relationships I'm sorry your partner wasn't one of them & was a shit.
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