OK. So I met someone who I've been talking to for a while. It went well, we both said we wanted to meet again. They asked me to bear with them while they figured out when we can meet again. That was 3 days ago and not heard anything since. They have sometimes taken a day or two to reply to messages when they've been really busy but never this long before. And it being just after we met is awful timing.

I've sent a couple of short hello, how are you type messages. The first one I sent yesterday has been opened (this morning) but not replied to. The other one hasn't been opened yet. I don't need them to tell me a date right now, just a normal chat (like we've been doing for a while now) would be nice!

It's making me extremely anxious. If they want to not see me again, please just tell me! If they need time to think/process some things, just tell me! If they are just super busy just a quick message to say they can't reply yet would be nice (something they've done before). My question is - if they reply and it was just a matter of being busy, do I broach the subject of how it made me quite anxious? I have tried my best to accommodate their relationship needs - get to know each other before meeting, no PDA unless somewhere very secluded. I haven't really had any specific needs of my own yet but I think this may be one of them! Do I tell them? I don't want it to seem to like I'm having a go at them or like I'm too needy?!

Thanks!