Me and my boyfriend have been wanting to try a threesome with another woman for a while, we’re not quite poly but not quite monogamous due to the lack of experience in the area and with other people in general romantically/sexually. I don’t ever want to make another woman/person feel uncomfortable or objectified and I know how unicorn hunting is seen understandably. I just know there IS people who are looking for casual sex, I just don’t know where or how to find them. it sounds like the swinging scene might be better for us, but I’m not open to other men and mutually we aren’t confident playing apart especially being beginners. How on EARTH do we find women to have fun with without being that creepy couple? I’ve read articles and we’re upfront, set and respect boundaries, be clear on expectations but I just don’t know where an appropriate site or app is for this purpose and what else to avoid to be the stereotypical “unicorn hunters” I’ve seen a lot of people say pay a sex worker which is so fair lol but I would also enjoy to have a friendship or connection outside of this, and it to possibly become a regular occurrence if not develop into a relationship once me and my boyfriend discover our preferences a bit further