I'm (36F) am chatting to a lovely lady (also 36F). We met on an app. She likes to get to know someone fairly well before meeting, plus has a pretty busy life. We've been chatting for about 10 days. Exchanging anywhere between 5 and 10 messages a day (altogether, not each), and they are usually long messages - a good few paragraphs each! We seem to have alot in common, the conversation is easy and natural and relaxed. All in all - great!

I've broached the subject of meeting and she says she definitely wants to, but has a couple of busy weeks coming up. Which is fine, I have no issue with that. But the last woman I met, we arranged to meet fairly quickly, basically when it was clear there was mutual attraction. Which meant that we knew enough about each other to know we were possibly compatible, but not so much that there was nothing left to learn.

I guess I am just worried (probably about nothing!) that we'll meet and there'll be nothing left to talk about lol. So has anyone got experience of this? Does it actually make it easier when you know the person alot better? Don't want any awkward silences cos we've run out of things to say lol. I mean we're not running out of things to say in our messages, so am I worrying over nothing?!