My wife and I are ENM. However, we have different standards and philosophies. ENM means a different thing for each of us. Long story...

I had a GF, she's married to a man. My GF moved far away years ago. The last time I saw my GF, we had a rough date and we parted bitterly.

However, my GF and I have texted often. The love is still there, but the relationship may be dead. Which is so weird. To love someone so much but...

This week, my GF and her husband are visiting my city. I found out 3 days ago. So I haven't told my wife yet.

There's so many details, nuances, and complexities that I'm not sharing. I don't even know what to do or say.

I think my GF wants to see me in friendly terms. And nothing will happen. Not even a kiss. Also, I don't have a relationship with her husband. But he's bi and I wouldn't mind if a group activity happens...

Yet I haven't told my wife. I don't know how she'll react. My wife leans more cold blooded swinger. While I'm more of a cheesy romantic guy.

On top of all this, I don't even know if my GF holds a grudge. Or how bad the olden bitterness remains. My GF may see me as a coward...

And there's a ton more. My GF may have another BF in this city. So does she want to hang out with me or him?

I don't really have a question nor I expect anything from you, the readers. I simply wanted to write and share the adventures of Poly problems.

I love my wife. I love my GF. But I don't want drama or conflict.

I need to tell my wife... and I don't know what to say or what to ask. Maybe focus on this line if you want to comment.

Sending you infinite love. Stay safe!