I’m so tired of the shiny penny chasing men who treat women like a conquest.

I’m looking for an FWB: emphasis on the actual F. Potential for repeat and consistency. I thought I’d gotten better at parsing this. Apparently I haven’t.

Not one but two dudes I went out with about 3-4 weeks ago have gone from zealous communicators to radio silent, conveniently after we had sex. Both sent the “that was fun” texts the next day, and had great feedback about me, our dates and our sex, but neither has made any effort to reach out since.

I’m aware I can reach out too, but I like my relationships reciprocal. I want them to want to reach out. I want them to make an effort. I’m fun, funny, easy going, smart, a good listener, thoughtful, sexy, got a banging body, and I’m great in bed. (And humble, despite this horn tooting rant.) Why the fuck would you not want to reach out to me?

When the contrast in the pursuit goes from zealous to nonexistent post romp, it makes me feel like a sex object. I prefer to be treated as a whole person. Does not feel good.

Idk what I’m looking for exactly, other than to just say I’m bummed and feeling like I’m never going to find what I’m looking for.