Me (f33) and my partner (m33) are navigating nonmonogamy. And I’m having feelings that I’m not seeing other people talk all that much about.

I’m not worried about feeling jealous about sharing my partner. I am feeling so insecure about anyone else actually wanting me. I’m nervous about opening up, and feeling totally rejected. I’m nervous I’ll be jealous of my partners ability to date and find connections, hes always been so good at it.

Anyway, I know the resources for breaking down attachment styles, and building communication and trust, etc. what can I do to help me breakdown my fear of being rejected?

Any other women feel afraid of trying to navigate through ENM because you feel undesirable? (I feel so silly and a little pathetic writing this, but I want to know how alone I am)