Rewriting post, cuz some people didn't understand.

Long story short. I am from shit_country_name I have been doing porn with my wife for 4 years already. And pretty successfully. We filmed for some big productions, had big socials, etc. It was her idea originally. She said that even if I hadn't come into her life, she would have been doing the same thing.

We even got arrested by corrupt police and could go to prison for 7 years. (All porn is illegal, even if your girlfriend/boyfriend sends you nudes, that person can go to jail).

We escaped from that country. It was a tough experience and our bond became strong, cuz we went through some tough shit together.

Two years ago I asked if it's possible to open our relations. And it's offended her. She said that she didn't wanna share me with other girl even if it's just fmf. She thought that I would like another girl more than her. Maybe because of insecurity I don’t know. I didn't mean to offend her and we closed this topic. It's not something I couldn't imagine my life without, our relations are more important to me.

Recently we tried g/g but it was for video (me as the operator). And it was her initiative, I didn't raise this topic in any way. It was a nice experience with a friendly person my wife had g/g sex before me.

*So she is pretty sexually open. *

When we only started dating(5 years ago) and talked about our sexual fantasies. She said that she watched a lot of gangbang porn and generally liked the idea of this, but was afraid of trying it in real life, and "maybe some fantasies should stay only as fantasies". It was 5 years ago.

How can I ask her about the idea of trying mfm threesome? I am afraid to offend her. I literally don't know how to start this conversation. "Hello, wife_name, what you are thinking about trying group sex with me, you, and another man?" - this sounds cringy to me if I randomly ask her about this in the morning