I (32f) recently got married and I’ve been with my husband for a total of four years. I am bisexual and I am very interested in hooking up with women. My husband always told me it was ok since day one if I was as with women but I never wanted to act on it until recently. He told me it was ok, so I’ve been hanging out with this girl, and I honestly started catching some feelings for her. I consider her a friend and I’m attracted to her but nothing has ever happened between us. It seemed like it would any day and I have been super excited fantasying about her all the time. Then last night, my husband says he isn’t ok with it because him and I have been having a tough time lately for other reasons and he wants me to stop seeing her and focus on our relationship. I feel extremely sexually frustrated, I feel like I need the ability to be with women sexually to feel fulfilled, but I know it’s not right unless he consents to it as well. I’m just trying to be patient but it’s hard….i don’t know if I can stay with him long term if he doesn’t allow me to have this freedom. I wish this wasn’t happening right now in my life, but I cannot help how I feel.