We just opened up and I connected with somebody I used to know a long time ago.

I'm pretty comfortable with her and we have a good time, but in addition to struggling with condom usage - I don't use them with my wife and this is the first time I've had to use them in seven years – I am having issues reaching orgasm.

I'm to assume this is common but can y'all men out there help me feel a little bit better about this and maybe give me some tips to overcome this unexpected challenge?

Back when I was single I was quite the stud, but my wife is amazing in bed and I think she may have spoiled me and I'm also getting used to sleeping with someone who is not her.

This can't be just me, right?