Long story short, my wife and I opened our relationship 5-6 months ago (her request) she almost immediately found a FWB and they see each other every couple of weeks.

Fast forward 5-6 months I found a girl I really connected with and we are texting every day and seeing each other 2x week. She helps me fulfill some of my kinks that my wife is not willing to explore and it has been great so far.

But my wife out of a sudden got hit by jealousy and is having a hard time controlling these feelings. On top of that her relationship with her guy is not going so well and he is not giving her the attention she is looking for.

So last night she came to me and told me she wants to maybe close our relationship, but she still wants to stay friends with her guy.

My problem is that I think the girl I'm seeing won't be ok with just being friends as she is very sexually active and needs "a steady fuck" as she says, and I also don't trust my wife to be just friends with her guy, as I'm not sure they won't be secretly fucking when they see each other.

So I can't help to feel like I'm getting the short end of the stick as she had her fun for months and now I finally found someone I'm having fun with and I'll have to end it so soon.

How would you handle this if you were in my shoes?