Updating you all after a couple requests!

Original: https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/1cjboh3xD5

Update 1: https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/T4HDc7meSr

Update 2: https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/lt3K3ppBUC

Visit went AMAZINGLY well. We got along even better than I remembered, even during an extended weekend together. I’m a solid introvert and people usually drain me, but we just gelled so well. (I remember this being the case with him before, so it wasn’t a huge surprise, but still. A weekend is a long time together for someone like me!)

Lots of laughs, lots of conversation, lots of 🔥 sex, and the weekend ended much too quickly.

He’s obviously still in a dark place, but I’m pretty good at holding space for people and letting them “be” if that makes sense. His grief is something I’m happy and willing to sit with him with, and not try to fix.

We had an incredible time and he’s visiting again in a few weeks. :)

I’ve had a few follow up conversations with him about ENM and he’s done more research and asked more questions about my personal practice of it.

I’ve made it clear I expect him to date other women, even if he doesn’t feel up to it right now, and he’s seemed super chill about my husband and let me know he expects me to still date other dudes.

Wonderful surprise, I discovered he is also into kink, so we had an especially amazing time and are planning even more fun times for when he visits. :)

All in all, it’s going really great and I am super happy I took the plunge. Thank you all so much for your wonderful support and advice!!

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