I have been dating a woman who identifies as solo-poly and also has some sugar daddies on the side. I don't necessarily have an issue with this. Still, she is unwilling (unable?) to be honest about how many people she is seeing or anything about her life outside of our time together. I am very open and upfront about my activities, and to feel comfortable and secure in our relationship, I would like to know something about her other connections. It feels like she sees several people and isn't comfortable sharing that. Recently, we attended an event where she knew many people, and I didn't know anyone, and I started feeling neglected. At one point, she was talking to a guy, and as I walked by, I asked her if she wanted something to drink. She ignored me, and I waited for a slight break in the conversation and asked again, and was ignored again. She didn't introduce me and acted like I wasn't there. As you can imagine, that didn't feel good, and it had me questioning my sanity and why I was subjecting myself to this. Poly, sugar daddies, and many other relationship styles are fine with me, but the lack of communication and inability to consider my feelings is stressing me out. Any thoughts from the community on this dynamic?