Wife and I have been to a few different kinds of ENM events and venues in the past few years. She’s straight, I’m heteroflexible, and we are currently looking for men who play solo to join us in MFM. The public scene appears to be strictly divided between traditional swingers, BDSM, and queer-focused events. We’ve gravitated toward the queer-friendly events because they are way more welcoming and community oriented, but the past few events I have felt a little out of my element. I’m wondering if here are any house parties that would be welcoming of an attractive but less-than-fit couple who aren’t yet ready to do a full swap. Bronze asked us to submit more pictures, which I took as a rejection.