My wife is a part time HW. Part time because we don’t play as often anymore like we used to. Part of the problem is that we used to have a small group of friends who all played together. Over time they have moved away and I was injured in a motorcycle accident. We no longer swing, but I do let her hotwife when I can find someone interested. What we both miss are friends we can talk to about our adventures, speak openly, and still be discreet in our private lives. So how does the wife find female friends who are also hotwives? Swinging sites cater to folks who want to hook up. She just wants a friend who is open to dirty conversations.