My partner (M) and I (F) are in our first poly relationship and we are also interested in dating and meeting people together.

We both have different views and ways of behavior when dating. I generally prefer to get to know people first and have some sort of connection before engaging in sexual intercourse, while my partner is more into casual stuff 'in the moment' vibe. This creates a bit of conflict because for him it would be okay that we would get together with people that are here temporarily/on holidays, see them a couple of times and then bye bye, while for me I prefer to connect with people that are here at least for a couple of months, so I don't need to rush or feel pressured for something to happen.

Both sides are okay. I've more like him in the past but, at the moment, I prefer to give my energy and access to my body more mindfully. We have discussed this and he is quite understanding, but every now and then he sends me the profile of some girl that he matched on app, that wants to meet us both, and will be here for a couple of days. I don't want to be super restrictive and have my own way only, because it's not fair to him also.

How to manage this? Advice and experiences accepted.