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I'm asking folks in a primary partnership or "mongamish" type relationship. I currently find myself in this situation. My partner and I are primary but have the freedom to sleep with others as long as protection is used, and we have always used protection together.
I've been with her for over a year now and we've used condoms the whole time. It's starting to feel like kind of a long time to be using condoms but I see it as the only thing that really makes non-monogamy possible.
So how long have you been using, or had used condoms with your primary partner? If you stopped using condoms with them how did that go? Did you have to have a conversation with other partners about it and inform them and make sure they were ok with it? How willing are new partners to sleep with you if you are no using condoms with your primary?
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I don't you use condoms with primary partner & I have 2 other partners I've been seeing for around a year & we also don't use condoms. We test frequently and everyone is aware of this fact. We all use condoms with more casual partners & ask about testing status, etc before engaging with someone whether it's a hookup or occasional fuck buddy. I've also previously had long term partners who regardless of test status wanted condoms used & that was fine too. My partners enthusiastically went condomless with me. People vary, some are more concerned with test status than condoms, some are concerned with both, some only worry about condom usage. Just decide on something that makes both you & a partner comfortable.