My partner and I have been toying with the idea and talking about hooking up together with other women - but I’m a little worried about actually going through with it and looking for extra input.

For more context: we’ve been together 6 years, live together, and have a great sex life. We’re very horny people.

Regarding prior experiences with other people, we made out with one of her friends at a New Year’s party a couple years ago. My gf wanted to go through with having a three way but was too drunk to actually do it in the end.

Recently we’ve started dirty talking during sex about adding another girl and we even bring it up when we’re not having sex. We also tend to talk about some of her friends in a sexual way and joke (privately) about having sex with them.

We have a bit of a plan: heading out to LGBT friendly bars and finding new partners there.

I guess right now I’m a bit worried about actually going through with it, since I’ve heard of a lot of horror stories about how threesomes ruined relationships and it is not very common for couples to participate in them. I’m also a little bit worried about how we will handle feelings of jealously, avoiding STDs, etc. Although my girlfriend is pretty chill and easygoing so I don’t think she’s thinking about this as much as I am.

I should also mention that my girlfriend is bi-curious but has never hooked up with a girl. We also only plan on having sex with other women.

So, should I go ahead and start having threesomes or pump the breaks? Thanks!