I M 33 have been in the lifestyle about 9/10 years, my partner F 30 is new to anything non vanilla, BDSM included, I’ve expressed how much I would have for her to participate in all Kink and related play, swinging, hotwifing, etc but she was into it and now seems reluctant on the idea, we made a new friend and she expressed interest and non interest and she has stated in the past she’s never really been into interracial, She loves showing off and being admired and I’ve often thought about making a new friend she would like and find attractive to send her way and not tell her… thoughts? We’re in Maryland BTW and this all pertains to MFM, I love seeing my partner getting off whether it’s me… I’m also a bit of a switch and a voyeur, thanks in advance :)