I want my bf to cheat on me... Is this a kink? (f23)

Okay so basically, I (F23) have really been exploring my sexuality lately, as has my bf (M23). This has made me realise that - very oddly lol - I really want him to sleep with other people? Or just someone else. So I can hear about it. Which has surprised me!

I've been crazy into hearing stories about other women he's slept with before, like crazy into it. He was a bit confused at first but has gotten really into it for me.

Recently I have worked out that something that realy turns me on is the thought of him sleeping with other people now, even with me not knowing about it until we'll after it happened. Or knowing the whole time. Anything like this.

So I want to know - is there a name for this? Or a good subreddit to read about it in? We're very aware that we'd need to talk about this LOTS before trying it, but would like to see if anybody with experience can talk about some important things to work out before.

I've tried looking but it's not really (girl)cucking or hothusband (maybe?) because - and this might sound weird - but I don't think it's a degredation/ humiliation thing. I think it's about how forbidden it is, and also - I just want to hear about what his rawest sexual self is like, when there's no love involved, but just lust. That turns me on so much.

P.s. We're both very concerned too about what - if we were to ever to this - to say to the other woman, to make sure she was totally in the know and knew what she was consenting to, but also wasn't weirded out. So I think just meeting somebody in a bar is probably ruled out cause I feel like most women (myself included probably!) wouldn't believe 'my girlfriend is okay with it', and of course we wouldn't want to lie and say he was single.

Also we're really into the idea of threesomes and looking into that on the side, which I think could be a good space to test out how this feels. Also role play oc.

Thanks so much ia!!! :))