Technically I have already hinted this to my wife over the years and we have had some naughty moments. Sex in a public place with someone watching, a nude photoshoot she did at a public beach, and even skinny dipping amongst guy friends of mine. So technically she wasn’t completely caught off guard, but most of these situations were either spur of the moment or alcohol infused and we never discussed them afterwards (besides the hot photoshoot ofc).

Well while laying in bed she randomly brought up an ex boyfriend who used to eat her out while watching game of thrones (thanks GOT sex scenes) and how obsessed he was with eating her out. I told her how hot it was imagining her being eaten out, and told her to tell me more. Once she saw how turned on I got she asked me “are you wanting to go to a swinger resort or something” in a joking way, and I responded “actually, not gonna lie I would love to see you with another man”.

She was surprised cause I have had instances of “jealousy” but imo it’s more about respect. I don’t like a random guy approaching my wife in a flirting manner without my consent. So she’s seen me shoo guys off in an angry way when we have gone out in the past.

Well without making this too long, I completely opened up that I wanted her to have sex with another man of her choosing as long as she let me know before hand. And that I didn’t have to watch, just the knowledge that she’s hooking up is enough to turn me on. And her response was “wow I didn’t expect that. I am super intrigued” and then we discussed who could be a potential candidate for a bit before going to bed. She has since not brought it up but has been extra affectionate in a noticeable way since then.

Two questions. Did this go well and she seems actually down? And she’s extremely attractive and fit, she would only want the same, best way to find single guys who are tall / handsome? Haha