And I'm not sure how I feel about it. I'm perfectly content being the side guy but definitely interested in more.

We've been together just over 4 months and things are incredible and growing closer. Something very special. On top of all this I'm wealthy and money seems to be an issue with them.

Things shifted and we fell in love a couple months back. She also started getting jealous (emotion she never experienced before). I agreed to be monogamous or at least give it a shot and let her know if needs changed. I told her another day my ideal relationship was for us to see each other at least twice a week and one vacation weekend a month and she's now cutting obligations to make sure to see me.

Thing is her husband is a dick and it seems a ton of stuff he relies on her. In the few times we've l hungout I've seen the way he treats her, meanwhile I treat her like a queen.

Is there anything I should do to help set boundaries and make sure I don't blow things up, or just stay out of it and let whatever happens happen? I don't feel it's my responsibility to adjust our relationship to make sure theirs stays healthy.