Excuse my english

So I am poly and have been for a while. The Last 6 moths ive been seeing this guy who is a Non-monogamist, he's never put mutch thought into it other that wanting to have sex with multiple women. I have no issue with this. but I would say we have become eachothers primary. The other women hel just meet for sex once in a while. But we are like glued to echothers sides. My issue is that he sems scared of the labes and calling it a relationship, and it makes me really isecure. I end up feeling like I'm forcing myself into his Daily life, even tho he says he wants me there.

Now I'm wondering if I'm in the wrong for wanting it to be official. ofc I don't want to force him to chancge i just want clearity

Is a relationship style comitment to mutch to ask?