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My wife and I are new and looking for some ideas for first steps into the life style. If we had to label our dynamic, it’s closest to stag/vixen in that I [28M] want to share her [26F] but in a dominant, non humiliating way.
We were thinking about her flirting with guys at a bar when on a business trip or messaging guys over Snapchat to get our feet wet.
Any suggestions for where to start or next steps?
If you want the guy to be more likely able to perform & also just have a better understanding of respect (respecting you both & your relationship) and boundaries I wouldn't go for guys in the wild. I would look to meet more experienced lifestyle guy at a sex club on a night they allow single men or even the apps like FetLife, Feeld, Kasidie, etc. I mean even experienced guys will have an off night with another dick in the room sometimes, but often they're taking what they need to take to prevent that & the odds are just much better they will get it up and be able to maintain it.
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