Be easy on me please.

I’m on a glp1 (HBP) that’s created some slowed digestion issues which I’ve never struggled with, which resulted in the name of this post.

I’m freaking out. It’s external and seems to be reducing, but it’s been nearly two weeks. My gay friends tell me it could take months, and maybe never be the same. Oh how I took my perfect little asshole for granted before.

Twofold question: how to handle the men I’ve been seeing who haven’t seen it, and how to handle new men?

One sweet FWB has been reaching out. We’re overdue for a hang. I keep making excuses. I’m worried he’s going to start thinking he hasn’t seen me for lack of interest. I really really like him and we have incredible sexual chemistry. I’m just embarrassed. He’s insanely sweet and understanding. He’s a dad to a trans kid and that experience has made him extra compassionate and sweet. Do I just, erm, tell him?

I do love anal, clearly that’s off the table currently. But I’m almost too insecure to even do doggy. And I have a ridiculously great ass, so that’s impossible to avoid with my lovers. To date I haven’t even let my husband see it.

Do I put my entire sex life on ice and just wait it out and hope and pray my perfect asshole returns? Avoid my fwb? Avoid new people dates?

Appease my concerns please. Or don’t. Just be gentle please, bc this blowz