My first sexual experience was a threesome with two girls of the same age I was, sixteen. I've always been considered a really attractive man. Picking up women was always easy for me. Slept with a lot of women through out most of my twenties. I met my wife at twenty eight and we have been married almost twenty seven years. I'm fifty five years old and just bored of it. My wife and I have had a great sex life. Explored swinging and other things to spice things up over the years. The last years or so things have changed. I just stopped wanting it. Zero sex drive. It's caused my beautiful,wife alot of pain. Questioning herself, even believing I was cheating on her. We have sex about twice a month and its because I would never want her to feel that way again. It sucks but I just have no desire anymore. I dont masterbate or anything. I even need to take a damn viagra when we do spend time together. Has anyone here gone through something like this before? Sometimes I think I've been so wild for so long, its kinda like that been there done it to death thing. I know this is rambling but it feels good to get it off my chest. Thanks for being considerate.