I have been seeing a man for several months and our relationship is quite special, more of a sexual type although we talk every day and we have an exclusive relationship (it was he who made it clear to me at goal that he didn't want us to see anyone else). Our sexual compatibility is incredible. He introduced me to bdsm and I discovered my true sexuality thanks to him I think. I'm a sub and he's a dom. I like to do everything he asks of me and obey him, it turns me on. However recently he told me he wanted to have a 3some with me and another woman, so I told him well first with a man to see his reaction. And he refused, saying he only wanted to be with another woman to make me "die of jealousy." I don't think I can see him sleeping with another woman in front of me, we have a pretty possessive relationship with each other so it hurts me that he wants to do that. Plus he keeps asking me for photos and videos and blackmails me (we won't see each other today if you don't send me that etc...) that I have to prove to him that I obey him always. Also he said that he wants me to always have the impression that I am going to be abandoned and that I wait for him (he promised me that he would never disappear) but suffering from fear of abandonment, I don't understand not why he wants to torture me like that.